Post #49: Meet My Friend Challenge AND BIG REVEAL!

mal and benj finished

Here’s my friend (well he’s my RL husband) Benj Proto.  I am interviewing him for the Meet My Friend Challenge by Strawberry Singh’s Monday Meme Challenge http://strawberrysingh.com/page/2/

Malachite Bing (in bold)  interviewing Benj Proto.

1)  How long have you been a resident?

I have to look…2005…8 years.

2)  What have you done  in SL with all that time? 

Dabbled in businesses, building, scripting, and I met you.  Yeah you did! 

3)  What impresses you about SL?

Technology, sociology, connecting with people all around the world.

4)  What have you learned from being a resident?

People are people, they are the same behind the avatar or as others would say, “People is as people does”.

5)  How has that impacted your RL?

The answer to this is in my answer to #2, I met you. AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

6)  Is there anyone or any thing or place you miss in SL?

Not being logged on with you, exploring, particles, sailing, building geeky stuff.

I miss our exploring.

7)  Fondest memory, go!

Sitting at Cloud Chateau, watching particles, having a conversation with Malachite Bing

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Hina/24/36/747

Yep, that’s where we met, November 4th, 2007.

8)  Is there anything you would like to add?

I love you.  I love you too.

The shopping cart:

What Benj is wearing:

All he remembers is his clothes are from Sf Designs (2007) by Swaffette Firefly

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/AnimamiA/216/242/22

I know his shoes come from Redgrave by Emilia Redgrave (2007) because I took him shopping for them!

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/REDGRAVE%20Skins%20Fashion/95/176/21

Skin, eyes, hair, and shape:  unable to retrieve names.

What Malachite is wearing:

Hair:  Clawtooth by Bubbles Clawtooth (that pretty lady strawberry cream from Collabor88)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tableau/209/145/23

Skin:  Glam Affair by Aida Ewing (Amberly europa frostbite)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tableau/209/145/23

Shape:  mine (adjusted over the years)

Lashes:  Slink by Siddean Munro (Slink Mesh Lashes)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sanctum/88/105/23

Toenail polish:  Adore & Abhor by Sileny Noel (Glitter Drip Black)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/MudHoney/175/206/23

Fingernail polish:  Starry Heaven by Emirun & Angeltrip

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/AnimamiA/216/242/22

Hands and feet:  Slink mesh hands and feet by Siddean Munro

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sanctum/88/105/23

Shorts:  Sf design by Swaffette Firefly

Top:  :Paper.Doll: by Zoey Gabardini (Bow Bandeau white)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Atomic%20Island/68/89/23

Piercings:  [Atooly] by Rockstarroo Gossipgirl (pink/purple piercings)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Royal%20Island/19/98/2752

Eyes:  [LeLutka] by Minnu Palen (Ellis cobalt medium)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/LeLutka/128/128/26

WE UPDATED BENJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  MAKEOVAHHHH!!!!!

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Shopping List for Benj:

We made it simple for Benj, he hates to shop…we got it all from Redgrave and Exile.

Redgrave by Emilia Redgrave:

Boots, cargo outfit (LIQUID MESH…SELF ADJUSTING CLOTHES!), Skin/Shape Tyler Pale, Eyes Emerald (same board as skin).

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/REDGRAVE%20Skins%20Fashion/95/176/21

Hair:  Drake at Exile by Kavar Cleanslate

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Covet/122/96/29

Hair on Malachite:  All D!va by Marisa Kira

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/CalanDiva/148/157/24

POSES:  I got these all from Pose Fair 2013 (Thanks to Ruby Starlight Writer of Exposeur Poses and Animations for putting on a GREAT event!)

#1:  CoCo Poses by Indigoskye44 (Yoga Hearts)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Appalachian/91/238/25

#2:  Infiniti Poses by Brandi Monroe (Encanto)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Southfield/201/56/3201

#3:  Whump Bump!  By Lyndzay Melli of [Lyndz-Matic] Poses & Gadgets

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Southfield/201/56/3201

Last but not least:

Pose by Infiniti Poses by Brandi Monroe (Treasured)

benj and mal_013 at night222222222222222I want to acknowledge Linden Labs for creating Second Life…I would not have the life I have today if I had not met Benj in SL.

Look #48: “Why do we love the sea? It is because it has some potent power to make us think things we like to think.” – Robert Henri

beach day_009

I went shopping at Summerfest and enjoyed the sim as well.  Nice build!  I noticed Kriss Lehman of Botanical had donated the pathways and grasses for the sim.  WOW!

I’m showing you what I wore on my shopping trip to the beach.  It took me FOREVER but I figured out how to apply skin tint appliers and nail/toe appliers to my slink hands and feet.  Well worth the effort but now I don’t want to change my skin!  Ahhhh…the fate of all SL Fashionista wannabes.

I love my drippy fingernail polish applier by Starry Heaven along with my Adore & Abhor Glitter drip toenail polish applier.  Once I figured out what to do (you simply have to wear the enhanced hands and feet by Slink then wear the applier hud and click on it…how simple) it was so easy.  I don’t know if I will ever take off my Slink hands and feet again.

The Starry Heaven appliers come in many colors in the same pack (to match my ever changing wardrobe and moods).  Starry Heaven has poses along with cool nail appliers.

Check them out: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/AnimamiA/216/242/22

The shopping cart:

Hair:  Clawtooth by Bubbles Clawtooth (that pretty lady strawberry cream from Collabor88)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tableau/209/145/23

Skin:  Glam Affair by Aida Ewing (Amberly europa frostbite)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tableau/209/145/23

Shape:  mine (adjusted over the years)

Lashes:  Slink by Siddean Munro (Slink Mesh Lashes)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sanctum/88/105/23

Toenail polish:  Adore & Abhor by Sileny Noel (Glitter Drip Black)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/MudHoney/175/206/23

Fingernail polish:  Starry Heaven by Emirun & Angeltrip

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/AnimamiA/216/242/22

Hands and feet:  Slink mesh hands and feet by Siddean Munro

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sanctum/88/105/23

Shorts:  Sf design by Swaffette Firefly

Top:  :Paper.Doll: by Zoey Gabardini (Bow Bandeau white)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Atomic%20Island/68/89/23

Piercings:  [Atooly] by Rockstarroo Gossipgirl (pink/purple piercings)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Royal%20Island/19/98/2752

Eyes:  [LeLutka] by Minnu Palen (Ellis cobalt medium)

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/LeLutka/128/128/26

Look #45: 50 Shades of Sexy Pillow Talk AND Strawberry’s Communication’s meme

pillow talk_004This is my photo for the 50 Shades of Sexy Pillow Talk Week #9 (I KNOW…I’m very behind but catching up!).

And here’s my Communication’s meme from Strawberry Singh’s Blog http://strawberrysingh.com/

  1. Who did you speak to last inworld today? Not today but the last person I spoke with inworld was last week:  Brent1 Despres (who btw has the best RL pic on his profile).
  2. Who has taught you most about SL? Thongshaman Thirroul (God, I miss her) and Bakaranus Arashi (I miss him too).
  3. Who do you turn to for help? Benj Proto or Google or Plurk or I actually read blogs about SL and do the tutorials.  However, I still don’t know how to change the z axis on my avatar while it’s in a pose.  PLEASE…if you know…just tell me…end my misery.
  4. Who is the most entertaining person on your friend list? Yahuu Trenkins, HE IS SO FUNNY!!!!
  5. Do you speak to your SL friends outside of SL? Yes I do.  Plurk, FB, Flickr, and in RL.  I know quite a few of my SL friends in RL.
  6. Are you part of a community or family inworld? No, not anymore.  I used to be a part of Second life LDS.  Yes, the Church of Latter Day Saints (which I am an RL member and highly recommend this religion).  However, I am not actively practicing it. I actually suck at religion.
  7. Are you usually around a lot of people or do you spend most of your time alone inworld? SL is my time to be alone.  But it gets lonely at times.  I think that’s why I enjoy plurk and FB for it’s social aspect.  I really enjoyed the social aspect of SL when I first joined.  I met the love of my life here in SL.  Years later, we are now married in RL.  Yes, dreams do come true.

The Shopping Cart:

Skin and Shape:  [ROCKBERRY] Paige B CLV/BLD freckles natural by Heather Beebe

Hair:  Clawtooth Bubbles Coffee with cream by Clawtooth Doolittle

Pose and cell phone:  Adorkable Poses Call Me by Adorkable Peapod

Eyes:  [LeLutka] Ellis Colbolt M by Minnu Palen

Sexy Nightie:  Ayiki’s creations Favorite white by Ayiki Takakura

Look #44: 50 Shades of Sexy Blogger Challenge Week #12: Indescribable

My submission for 50 shades of sexy blog challenge week 12, “Indescribable”.

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The shopping cart:
Skin: Glance skins Anais December by Snejana Tran
Shape: [the Skinnery] Emma Shape by Umazuma Metaluna
Hair: Tekeli-li! Black Orchid, Hathor by Tekelili Tantalus
Eyes: Curio Tragic Eyes Starry Night by Rita Groshomme
Lashes: [LeLutka] DIVA lashes by Thora Charron

Look #29: Pour some sugar on me…Def Leppard

pour some sugar on me50 Shades of Sexy Blogger Challenge Week #4:  Pour some sugar on me.

This is my idea of a calorie free dream.  Snuggled between chocolate and cupcakes in my favorite sleepwear.  And calorie free when it’s in SL.  Ahhhhh…pure indulgence.

The shopping list:

Ring:  Wedding Ring Gift from Benj Proto from Alyssa Bijoux Jewelry (married to the same man/avatar in RL & SL)

Feet:  *Shine*

PJ’s & mask:  Candy Doll Sleep over Leopard (Rebeca Dembo)

Hair:  [elikatira] Breath Red 06 (Elika Tiramisu) 70% sale Thankies!

Skin & Shape:  .::WoW Skins::. Britney tone 1-04 and Britney Shape (Sawsan Secretspy)

Cupcakes:  Sway’s Cupcakes, Sway’s & Cookie Bears (Sway Dench)

Cake:  Triple Tier Chocholate Ganache Cake by Alchemy Immortalis (Alchemy Cyannis)

Sundae:  Strawberry Custard Tank by Alchemy Immortalis (Alchemy Cyannis)

Pose:  KaTink Mamie 5

Sim:  My home on Mystical Rentals

Look #28: wake up…Marvin Gaye

sexual healing

ok, it’s really a look, it’s more like a scene.  This is for the 50 shades of sexy weekly blogging challenge.  I’m late on my submission.  Here it is.

The shopping list:

Rug:  Ivory Shag by Bella Rose Furniture (Bella Bertone)

Tennis shoes:  Dogstone Designs All Star White (Chosen Few)

Wine Bottle and glasses:  Adorkable poses (Adorkable Peapod)

Bed:  Sex bed sexmachine (DJ Mantega Wilder)

Purse:  Purple Moon Mara Handbag (Poulet Koenkamp)

Coffee Table:  RnB Designs Furniture Dakota coffee table (Bethesa Hancroft)

Ladies shoes:  Gibberish St Tropez Heels (Girlspeedo Latte)

 

Look # 27: If you’re holding out for universal popularity, I’m afraid you will be in this cabin for a very long time. J. K. Rowling

cabin fever_001cabin fever_006I’m finally getting better from the mysterious cold that felt more like the flu.  I hate being sick.  I think it feels more like cabin fever.  Now, onward to being in the world of the living.

The shopping cart:

Pose:  Glitterati freebies laptop (thanks!)

KaTink:  Cabin Love

Facelight:  Kessis facelight soft (Kessi Andretti:  Sweet Harmony & E.L. Primwork)

Eyes:  IKON Lucid Eyes Optimism Feb Group Gift (Ikon Innovia)

Shape:  Parisa Busty by External Appearances (Karen Blackhorne)

Skin:  .::WoW Skins::. Feb Group Gift (Sawsan.Scretspy)

Feet:  *COCO* Barefeet group gift (Cocoro Lemon)

Hair:  [elikatina] Garden Blonde 01 (Elika Tiramisu) 70% storewide sale

Shirt:  Izzie’s black casual lace top (Izzie Button)

Jean skirt:  Maitreya ‘Jules’ Jeans skirts *Dirty (Onyx LeShelle)

Tied shirt:  DYN logger shirt (Fred Kenorland) only on SL Marketplace